Typically, I'm the type of guy who likes to plan things out. Especially when it comes to dealing with friends, booty friends, family, etc. It's just the way I am. I like things planned out in my head and have it "go as planned." It's funny because if you ever met me you would NEVER think that at all. I come across as unplanned, spontaneous, etc. It's all just an ILLUSION.
However, a few weeks back I did have an "unplanned moment," and it turned out to be quite mind blowing. A friend of mine, we'll call her Belle, called me up at around 2 AM. Belle is one of my "on again, off again" friend "with privileges." Sometimes, I'll go through weeks not even hearing a peep from her. Other times, she'll be over at my place having a dandy good time. Well, I hadn't heard from Belle in over 3 months, so it was a bit of a surprise when I heard from her. Sometimes when she calls, she's drunk, other times she's "straight as an arrow." That night was one of those "straight as an arrow" nights. I will say that I'm not a fan of being with anyone that's drunk. Partially because, I'm not much of a drinker and drunks just plain bother me. Besides, women/men/dogs/cats just don't smell nice when their on the "evil juice." So, I was gratified that she was sober, but a bit miffed that it was 2 AM.
"Can I come over?" she supplicated.
"Belle, it's 2 in the morning." I said with irritation.
"Well, I haven't seen you in a while." She pleaded.
"Yes, I know. It's good to hear from you, but it's 2 in the morning." I fumed.
"I'm leaving tomorrow for a month trip to France."
"Isn't that today?" I jested.
"Shut up. I'm coming over." She hung up the phone before I could even say anything. I was a bit peeved, but what could I do? Literally after about 15 minutes, I heard a knock at my door. I was still in my boxers and t-shirt, hair disheveled, cigarette in hand, and tired. I opened the door, and she literally walked straight in before I could even get a word in.
"I'm leaving tomorrow, and I had to see you before I left." She blustered. "Besides, I haven't seen you in a while, and I haven't been laid in a while. WHICH reminds me, why haven't you called?"
"Well, you usually call me. Jealous?" I jested.
"Fuck you." She hit me on the arm. She then grabbed my arm and led me to my room. As we walked upstairs, I couldn't help but watch as her hips swayed from side to side. Belle has always had a great backside. I could also tell that she dressed specifically for me: tight baby t-shirt, low cut jeans, no bra. When we finally got to my room, she immediately stripped to nothing. Nothing fancy. No strip tease. No tease. Nothing. Just free as bird naked.
Well, I am a man. I decided to "go with the flow." I stripped as well. Not that it didn't take much, all I was wearing was boxers and a t-shirt! She immediately pushed me on to the bed and took my cock into her mouth. Let's just say I didn't care anymore that it was 2 in the morning.
Belle has always been good in oral. I don't know where she learned or who taught her. Maybe, it's just a talent? Who knows, but she's one of the very few women in the world that has ever had me cum in her mouth during a blowjob. Granted, it took her about 25 minutes of constant head bobbing, but she was determined to get me to cum via blowjob. When I finally DID cum, she swore she'd never try that again. I've told her many times that it's very difficult for me to even come close to cumming during a blowjob.
She attacked my cock. She held nothing back using her mouth as if it were her pussy. Up and down, swirling her tongue round and round as I writhed beneath her. She then placed her hands on each of my thighs and looked up at me, my cock pulsating against her cheek.
"Fuck my mouth." She ordered.
I didn't hold back. At this point, I was completely taken in and horny. My cock penetrated her mouth as she gagged slightly with each stroke. Each time I pushed into her, she pushed her head harder against me almost as if she were trying to take my entire body into her mouth. She released my cock, and I looked down. My cock was glistening and covered with her spit. Bubbles of her saliva dribbled down my shaft. She took me in completely again and I literally gasped out loud. I could feel her tongue rapidly flickering beneath the base of my cock as she completely deep throated me. Her tongue extended further *with* my cock deep in her mouth as she licked part of my scrotum. My friends, if you're ever blessed a lucky to have a woman do this to you, you know how amazing that is. I guess that's one advantage of being not to big. Maybe.
Each of her hands gripped my thighs as she devoured my cock. My eyes rolled to the back of head. It's been a while since I've received fellatio like that. Even from her. I looked down at her as she looked up. Her eyes displayed a hunger, and I felt her tongue trailing and lapping beneath my cock. She slowly withdrew my cock from her mouth. She stared at me as she wiped the saliva from her mouth.
I didn't wait for anything. I literally picked her up and had her sit on my face. Normally, I love to tease. Normally, I would explore her entire body with my lips, tongue, and hands. Fuck normally! My fingers spread her lips apart exposing her inner pinkness, and my tongue fluttered between her clitoris and her opening. She breathed heavily. I could feel her body rising and falling because she was breathing so heavily. My hands gripped her ass tightly as I partially held her up. I couldn't wait anymore. I don't think she could either. My wet tongue slid all the way up to clitoris. My wide tongue overtook her clitoris like a tidal wave and her entire body shook. My hands continue to hold her up as my tongue circled round and round over her slippery clit. Belle was practically hyper-ventilating. My entire tongue lapped up and down along her whole clit. Faster and faster my tongue lapped as she trembled against me. I continued to hold her up with my left hand as she straddled my face. My left hand went beneath her, and I slowly pushed my fingers deep into her wetness. I could feel her cunt clenching and releasing against my fingers as I pushed them deeper inside of her.
"Fuck!" She gasped.
I withdrew my fingers slowly, then slowly pushed them in but began curling my fingers in to rub her g-spot. I took her clit into my mouth and began sucking on it, all this time my tongue circling her clitoris. Her pussy muscles clenched around my fingers tightly as I continue rubbing her g-spot. I began lapping against the length of her clit and felt her getting close. Her cunt began twitching and pulsating. Her back arched almost falling back, but I held her tightly with my right arm. My tongue continued in a persistent pace as my fingers constantly pulsated against her g-spot. She completely let loose. Her cunt pulsating wildly against my fingers as she screamed aloud. I held onto her tightly as her pussy continue to twitch against my fingers.
My fingers slowly withdrew from her pussy, and she didn't wait to pause. She moved towards my cock and sat on it. I felt my cock being completely devoured by her wetness. Our eyes looked directly into each other as she rode me. Her body rose and fell, and her cunt felt like liquid satin around my throbbing member. My hands grasped her ass tightly with my fingers almost poking into her. Faster and faster she rode me, and I began to yell out:
"Fuck me harder, don't hold back."
Boy, did she fuck harder and faster. When she needed a "break" she would completely devour my cock with her cunt and grind against it. Her hips rotated and swayed side to side. I could feel every part of her hot wetness. Soon, we would resume the pounding. She literally fucked the shit out of me. I didn't fuck her at all. She fucked me. Pounding, again and again and again. My hands began slapping her ass cheeks. I was not in control anymore.
"Don't hold back, fuck me. Fuck me. Let it go. Let it all out" I yelled. My hands continue to spank her ass cheeks. She grabbed a hold of the backboard of my bed as she continued to drive herself onto my cock. It wouldn't be long before I would explode.
Her body began to shake, and at that point I had lost any sense of control. My cock literally exploded inside of her and she screamed again. Her cunt literally sucking the cum out of my cock. My body writhed and my cock pulsated deep insider of her as I expelled my cum into her. My body was still trembling, but for some reason I wasn't done with her. I pushed her to the bed and slid beneath her. Her legs spread wide apart, I began licking my cum out of her wet pulsating pussy. My cock juice tasted salty and slimey. It's not something I do often, but I find myself doing that whenever I am "over the top" horny and been fucked hardcore.
I moved up to her, my cum glistening over my lips. We kissed and her tongue flickered over my cum laced lips. She smiled at me and said:
"I told you I could come over."
Friday, July 27, 2007
Monday, July 16, 2007
Female Orgasm Tips
I don't claim to be the end-all be all "god in bed," so take each "tip" with some grain of salt. Also, no two women are alike. What will work with some won't work on others. However, much of this comes from feedback that I've received as well as my own personal experience.
1. Take it slow. Don't try to rush things, even if it seems like she wants to "speed things up." The longer you delay (within reason), the more likely the outcome.
2. Tease. Tease. Tease. When you're in bed with your "lover," remember that one of the very few moments when you have "power sexually" over another woman is while you tease. Take advantage of this. Don't go straight for the clit, avoid it. Explore her body. Touch her. Run your hands slowly and lightly over her entire body.
3. Be aware. Pay attention to what you are doing and how she is reacting. Most women do not scream out and moan and groan like a pornstar. Most are far more subtle than that. Hear how she is breathing. Feel when she tightens up (not necessarily her pussy). Often times when a woman suddenly tightens up, it's usually because you are being too rough.
4. Don't think Porn, think of her. This is so important. Often, what is portrayed in Porn is simply acting. Simple in and out often can be numbing and (unfortunately) boring to many women. Learn to move your body, learn to change pace from fast to slow to fast then back to slow again. Additionally, the simple "in/out" often neglects most women's primary "orgasm" organ, the clit. Use your body to thrust and rub against her clitoris. Or, have yourself or the woman touch it themselves.
5. Enjoy yourself and each other. This is the most important. Society has ingrained in our heads that the "female orgasm" is everything. This is simply not true at all. Women can have orgasms and completely feel unfullfilled (and vice-versa). Sex is about enjoying each other, not about reaching orgasm. If your not enjoying each other, no matter what you do or how "hard" you try, nothing is going to come out of it. (No pun intended).
So many women have told me the same thing: "Every guy fucks the same." Or, "most men have no clue on what to do in bed." Maybe we all need to take some time out and enjoy each other.
1. Take it slow. Don't try to rush things, even if it seems like she wants to "speed things up." The longer you delay (within reason), the more likely the outcome.
2. Tease. Tease. Tease. When you're in bed with your "lover," remember that one of the very few moments when you have "power sexually" over another woman is while you tease. Take advantage of this. Don't go straight for the clit, avoid it. Explore her body. Touch her. Run your hands slowly and lightly over her entire body.
3. Be aware. Pay attention to what you are doing and how she is reacting. Most women do not scream out and moan and groan like a pornstar. Most are far more subtle than that. Hear how she is breathing. Feel when she tightens up (not necessarily her pussy). Often times when a woman suddenly tightens up, it's usually because you are being too rough.
4. Don't think Porn, think of her. This is so important. Often, what is portrayed in Porn is simply acting. Simple in and out often can be numbing and (unfortunately) boring to many women. Learn to move your body, learn to change pace from fast to slow to fast then back to slow again. Additionally, the simple "in/out" often neglects most women's primary "orgasm" organ, the clit. Use your body to thrust and rub against her clitoris. Or, have yourself or the woman touch it themselves.
5. Enjoy yourself and each other. This is the most important. Society has ingrained in our heads that the "female orgasm" is everything. This is simply not true at all. Women can have orgasms and completely feel unfullfilled (and vice-versa). Sex is about enjoying each other, not about reaching orgasm. If your not enjoying each other, no matter what you do or how "hard" you try, nothing is going to come out of it. (No pun intended).
So many women have told me the same thing: "Every guy fucks the same." Or, "most men have no clue on what to do in bed." Maybe we all need to take some time out and enjoy each other.
Monday, July 9, 2007
Can Men Fake?
We all know that women from time to time (or sometimes ALL the time) fake orgasms. Most of the time, I'd attribute this to men because a lot of guys just don't know what the hell they're doing. They're just happy to be there! One statistic that I've seen states that around 75% of all women have faked with their current partner at one time or another. That being said, the same "study" states that around 25% of men have faked orgasm. I find that interesting, and I'm sure women might as well, but I'm here to state that I completely believe this. In fact, I've faked an orgasm before as well.
How is this possible? Well first of all, I know of women who have told me that their partners barely give any indication of cumming at all. A lot of them, in fact, just get up or roll-over, and their female partner just assumes that it's happened. Others may be because both parties (or the female) were a bit more intoxicated, so when it was "over" they just assumed that it happened. For me, it was because I was wearing a condom and because I was just damned tired. Since, I didn't want her to think she "wasn't good enough," I literally began (using my PC muscle) began flexing my penis as if I was having an orgasm, made a bunch of noise and collapased. Considering so many women just don't think that men fake, I'm positive that my partner at the time, didn't think twice about it.
Yes, men faking orgasms isn't "typical," but it does happen. It's only happened to me twice in my life, so I'm sure no egos were too damaged by my "acting."
How is this possible? Well first of all, I know of women who have told me that their partners barely give any indication of cumming at all. A lot of them, in fact, just get up or roll-over, and their female partner just assumes that it's happened. Others may be because both parties (or the female) were a bit more intoxicated, so when it was "over" they just assumed that it happened. For me, it was because I was wearing a condom and because I was just damned tired. Since, I didn't want her to think she "wasn't good enough," I literally began (using my PC muscle) began flexing my penis as if I was having an orgasm, made a bunch of noise and collapased. Considering so many women just don't think that men fake, I'm positive that my partner at the time, didn't think twice about it.
Yes, men faking orgasms isn't "typical," but it does happen. It's only happened to me twice in my life, so I'm sure no egos were too damaged by my "acting."
Intro to Me
Before I begin on my babble, I'd like to tell you a little about myself (as much as I can): I'm an American (specifics on my race will remain a mystery) born in the 1970s in Baltimore. I grew up in the midwest and had a conservative upbringing. However, much to my parents chagrin, I was quite liberal in my life both philosophically and socially. I'm 6 foot tall, quite sociable, and addicted to the web. I have a positive outlook on life. Personally, I feel that if you're thinking negative all the time (especially the world around you), negative things will happen to you. It's not to say I'm just a "happy go-lucky" kinda guy, but I generally try to look at everything with a smile and treat everyone in an equal manner. I do, however, try to look at things realistically. I wanna stress the word *try*, because everyone knows this just doesn't happen all the time. When I was younger, I'd have to say that I looked at every romantic encounter/potential/etc. with a "Hollywood movie" frame of mind. I'd have to say that through the years that I have definitely grown out of that mentality. I am still a bit of a romantic, but I'd have to say that I've grown to be much more of a skeptic than anything.
I've had a total of three (3) long term relationships in my life. The first one, in a different time and world, we'd probably be married today. The second one was, unfortunately for her, a rebound long term relationship. We were an off and on again couple for at least 2 1/2 years! The third one was someone I thought I loved, but realized that I never did as time past on. She wanted to marry me, but I never wanted to marry her. I know that all of this sounds all sad, and many of you probably feel sorry for these three, but truly they are in a happier place now. All three are married, and all three I'm still close friends with. I've come to realize that "timing" factors into *so many* of our relationships, and if the timing were different on *any* of these three (well maybe not the third), I'd probably be married right now.
After my third long-term relationship, I came to realize that "marriage" was just not for me. At least not right now. I have nothing against marriage. I believe if you find the right person and the timing is right, you should not hold yourself back on this. For me, it's just something that I don't want. I'd rather have a good friend than a wife.
I'm definitely not the most attractive person in the world. However, I'm not ugly either. I guess I'm just an average-looking guy, slightly overweight (aren't we all), and someone who probably smokes too much. In terms of my sexuality, I'm definitely straight, but I firmly believe that sexuality is often not easily "defined." I think that the world works in shades of gray rather than "black or white." I believe that anyone has the NATURAL right to love whoever they please.
I'm not big, penis size speaking. Like most other guys, I do wish I were bigger, but such is life. You have to do with what you have. Ultimately, as I constantly try to remind myself, it's all about the moment, who you are with, and what you and your companion are feeling at the time. I'm always trying to remind myself of that. Do I have a bit of an inferiority complex? Yes, but then again who doesn't?
I've been with (so far) a total of 38 women in my life. Some were friends, some girlfriends, and others were just moments. Have I satisfied them all? Lol. I wish. Anyone claiming that they've satisfied every person they've been with (women and men) are definitely lying to themselves. Most of the women that I've been with (based on my highly unscientific poll), have said that I'm particularily good in oral (lol, probably because I don't have a big cock). Then again, oral on a woman is probably one of my favorite things in the world. And yes, I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.
Anyway, thought I'd tell the world a bit about myself. Enjoy!
I've had a total of three (3) long term relationships in my life. The first one, in a different time and world, we'd probably be married today. The second one was, unfortunately for her, a rebound long term relationship. We were an off and on again couple for at least 2 1/2 years! The third one was someone I thought I loved, but realized that I never did as time past on. She wanted to marry me, but I never wanted to marry her. I know that all of this sounds all sad, and many of you probably feel sorry for these three, but truly they are in a happier place now. All three are married, and all three I'm still close friends with. I've come to realize that "timing" factors into *so many* of our relationships, and if the timing were different on *any* of these three (well maybe not the third), I'd probably be married right now.
After my third long-term relationship, I came to realize that "marriage" was just not for me. At least not right now. I have nothing against marriage. I believe if you find the right person and the timing is right, you should not hold yourself back on this. For me, it's just something that I don't want. I'd rather have a good friend than a wife.
I'm definitely not the most attractive person in the world. However, I'm not ugly either. I guess I'm just an average-looking guy, slightly overweight (aren't we all), and someone who probably smokes too much. In terms of my sexuality, I'm definitely straight, but I firmly believe that sexuality is often not easily "defined." I think that the world works in shades of gray rather than "black or white." I believe that anyone has the NATURAL right to love whoever they please.
I'm not big, penis size speaking. Like most other guys, I do wish I were bigger, but such is life. You have to do with what you have. Ultimately, as I constantly try to remind myself, it's all about the moment, who you are with, and what you and your companion are feeling at the time. I'm always trying to remind myself of that. Do I have a bit of an inferiority complex? Yes, but then again who doesn't?
I've been with (so far) a total of 38 women in my life. Some were friends, some girlfriends, and others were just moments. Have I satisfied them all? Lol. I wish. Anyone claiming that they've satisfied every person they've been with (women and men) are definitely lying to themselves. Most of the women that I've been with (based on my highly unscientific poll), have said that I'm particularily good in oral (lol, probably because I don't have a big cock). Then again, oral on a woman is probably one of my favorite things in the world. And yes, I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body.
Anyway, thought I'd tell the world a bit about myself. Enjoy!
Hello World
Hello everyone.
I have a number of blogs throughout the Internets, but for this particular blog I am keeping myself anonymous. Primarily to talk about personal details of my life: my desires, thoughts, moments of truth, and of course sex (who doesn't talk about sex?) I hope everyone enjoys!
The Stranger
I have a number of blogs throughout the Internets, but for this particular blog I am keeping myself anonymous. Primarily to talk about personal details of my life: my desires, thoughts, moments of truth, and of course sex (who doesn't talk about sex?) I hope everyone enjoys!
The Stranger
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